{"id":1868,"date":"2026-09-06T14:47:21","date_gmt":"2026-09-06T21:47:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/?p=1868"},"modified":"2026-09-07T10:45:23","modified_gmt":"2026-09-07T17:45:23","slug":"filial-piety","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/filial-piety\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;FILIAL PIETY&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><br>Letters from a Chinese American Granddaughter<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>The last in a three-part series, by a girl caught between cultures and looking for answers<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-1 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#4f465db0\"><strong><em>By Sofia Yee (she\/her), Special to shades Magazine<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Read Part One <a href=\"https:\/\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/grandmas-apples\/\"><strong>HERE<\/strong><\/a>.<\/em> <em>Read Part Two <a href=\"https:\/\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/ultimate-risk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>HERE<\/strong><\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8216;<strong>The Dutiful Daughter<\/strong>&#8216;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">From a young age, my grandmother had me and my cousins trained. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In unsteady English, she would say, \u201cWhen <em>Ma Ma<\/em> <em>lou<\/em> [ages and becomes old], you take care <em>Ma Ma,<\/em> right?\u201d And as young kids, we wouldn\u2019t dare reply negatively. We would just bob our heads up and down, not entirely sure of what we had just signed ourselves up for. Thus, the tradition of <em>filial piety<\/em> prevailed in my 21st century, Chinese American family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But amidst the chaos of ancient China, the pillars of <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC6363941\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">filial piety<\/a> <\/strong>provided the backbone of society, creating a hierarchy that has survived to this day. Filial piety<em> <\/em>is the expectation that one will respect and obey the elders in their family. Eventually, this Confucian principle became synonymous with harmony and peace, a law in itself that no one would dare defy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Children obeyed their parents, wives submitted to their husbands, husbands obeyed their own parents and the emperor bowed to his ancestors. Over the centuries, filial piety \u2013 <em>hau sun<\/em>, as my grandparents call it \u2013 has not strayed far from its roots. To this day, there is a social expectation and obligation that one must care for their elders. It\u2019s a full-time job.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When I think of the ideal, dutiful daughter, I think of my mother. Whether it&#8217;s technology troubles or a doctor\u2019s appointment, a grocery run or an unexpected phone call, she is always the first one to drop everything and be there for my grandparents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Ma Ma<\/em> (paternal grandmother), <em>Poh Poh<\/em> (maternal grandma), and <em>Gong Gong<\/em> (maternal grandpa) are always at the forefront of her thoughts. Along with my aunts and uncles, she sacrifices hobbies, sleep and a little bit of sanity for my grandparents. Since she was in high school, my mother has put her parents first: Even her first paychecks from bussing tables went straight to her parents. While it may seem to others as if my mother\u2019s devotion to caring for my grandparents is a burden, for her, each task is rooted in quiet gratitude.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On the other hand, there\u2019s me: An Americanized Chinese American girl. And according to the standards set by my mom, I\u2019m not a filial, dutiful daughter. In fact, I\u2019m far from it. <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"892\" height=\"617\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.34-PM.png?fit=892%2C617&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1873\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1.4457053729898348;object-fit:cover;object-position:36% 50%;width:448px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.34-PM.png?w=892&amp;ssl=1 892w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.34-PM.png?resize=10%2C7&amp;ssl=1 10w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.34-PM.png?resize=300%2C208&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.34-PM.png?resize=432%2C299&amp;ssl=1 432w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.34-PM.png?resize=318%2C220&amp;ssl=1 318w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.34-PM.png?resize=396%2C274&amp;ssl=1 396w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.34-PM.png?resize=768%2C531&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.34-PM.png?resize=660%2C457&amp;ssl=1 660w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 91vw, (max-width: 900px) 600px, (max-width: 1060px) 50vw, (max-width: 1200px) 520px, (max-width: 1400px) 43vw, 600px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m a self-centered, needy and stubborn teenager whose parents&#8217; lives now revolve around my life. They drive for hours on weekends to my tournaments and my meets; countless times they&#8217;ve had to wait for me when I linger too long with friends. Listening to my dramatic recollections of my day, my stress becomes their stress, my triumphs their triumphs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My parents have miraculously survived being chauffeurs, chefs, personal shoppers and, perhaps most heroic of them all, therapists without complaining once. And yet I\u2019m still the first one to challenge them, to spark debates over dinner and be unapologetically vocal about my ideas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My lack of filial piety becomes even more apparent when you hear my broken Cantonese. As a kid, I remember doing everything to avoid picking up the phone when my grandparents called. Anything to avoid facing my own failure at being a good granddaughter.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"892\" height=\"617\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.44-PM.png?fit=892%2C617&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1872\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1.4457053729898348;width:483px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.44-PM.png?w=892&amp;ssl=1 892w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.44-PM.png?resize=10%2C7&amp;ssl=1 10w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.44-PM.png?resize=300%2C208&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.44-PM.png?resize=432%2C299&amp;ssl=1 432w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.44-PM.png?resize=396%2C274&amp;ssl=1 396w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.44-PM.png?resize=768%2C531&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.44-PM.png?resize=318%2C220&amp;ssl=1 318w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Screenshot-2026-09-06-at-1.53.44-PM.png?resize=660%2C457&amp;ssl=1 660w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 91vw, (max-width: 900px) 600px, (max-width: 1060px) 50vw, (max-width: 1200px) 520px, (max-width: 1400px) 43vw, 600px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yet my grandparents see another girl. The granddaughter in their eyes is <em>zhen hai hau sun<\/em> (really filial). Because the girl they see is the girl who used Google Translate to write birthday cards in Chinese characters, the girl who crocheted them a lopsided hat at Christmas and the girl who baked them fresh bread for Father\u2019s Day. Try as she might, the girl would rather speak in broken Chinese than not speak to them at all. While my mom and I are constantly doubting if what we do for them is enough, my grandparents, who\u2019ve never asked for anything themselves, have never felt more content.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When I feel my <em>Ma Ma<\/em>\u2019s rough skin in my hand, I catch glimpses of the girl she sees, too. In those moments, I understand filial piety is not merely transactional. Parents don\u2019t raise children for the sole purpose of having a permanent caretaker in their \u201cgolden\u201d years. Nor is filial piety settling a lifelong debt \u2013 literally, from your parents giving you life.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Guiding <em>Gong Gong<\/em> as he relearns how to walk or listening to <em>Poh Poh<\/em> laugh out loud, I realize filial piety is the last thing on my mind. It\u2019s just love: Imperfect, endless love. And what wouldn\u2019t I give to make them smile again.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>In closing<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At the <a href=\"https:\/\/maginecreativeservices.com\/shadesmagazine2023\/grandmas-apples\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>beginning of this series<\/strong><\/a>, I wrote that my biggest fear was never knowing how to peel apples. Admittedly, I was lying to myself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My greatest fear was losing my identity, failing to pass down the heritage that my grandparents had worked so hard to preserve. It never was, and never will be, about the apples. It will always be about the village that has taught me strength, love and kinship &#8230; no matter how far I go.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Recently, I saw a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/shorts\/knxduu4n7EI\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">video<\/a> of a Harvard graduation speech where the graduate spoke about her immigrant mother\u2019s unspoken act of love: A thoughtfully prepared plate of fruit. At first, I scoffed \u2013 the story of Asian parents and cut fruits has been told <a href=\"https:\/\/www.refinery29.com\/en-us\/2020\/05\/9747262\/asian-cut-fruit\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">dozens<\/a> of times before. 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